Monday, June 15, 2009

Two Love Poems

A Special World
A special world for you and me
A special bond one cannot see
It wraps us up in its cocoon
And holds us fiercely in its womb.

Its fingers spread like fine spun gold
Gently nestling us to the fold
Like silken thread it holds us fast
Bonds like this are meant to last.

And though at times a thread may break
A new one forms in its wake
To bind us closer and keep us strongIn
a special world, where we belong.


What I Love About You
I love the way you look at me,
Your eyes so bright and blue.
I love the way you kiss me,
Your lips so soft and smooth.

I love the way you make me so happy,
And the ways you show you care.
I love the way you say, "I Love You,"
And the way you're always there.

I love the way you touch me,
Always sending chills down my spine.
I love that you are with me,
And glad that you are mine.

Thursday, June 11, 2009

3 Step to Build Positive Attitude


The essence of yoga is to be positive in any situation that we find ourselves in.
When we are positive, we find that our interactions with the world and ourselves become brighter, more productive and perpetuate the ‘feel good’ factor. This in turn makes us healthier and more peaceful.
But how do we develop this positivism. The answer can be found in ‘Attitudinal’ Yoga.
According to this concept of yoga, the path to a positive attitude can be found through a 3-step approach, namely,

Awareness
Acceptance; and
Attitude

Let us examine these three components:
Awareness:The first step is to be aware of what and how we are thinking. We must train ourselves to be aware at all times of how our mind is working – the thoughts, thinking patterns and tendencies. Make this a habit. If it is difficult, the meditation technique of antar mouna and Yoga Nidra are methods which help us do this. These techniques help in the withdrawing of our senses to introspect.
Acceptance:Awareness, however, brings about a heightened sensitivity to the issues. We tend to become judgemental and critical of ourselves or of others. This has the danger of sending us into a vicious cycle of negativity UNLESS we learn to accept what we see and understand.
Have an attitude that “it is ok” to think how we are. Just be a witness to this fact and believe that God likes us for what we are. This acceptance leads to a genuine love and compassion, which forms the bedrock of positive thinking.
For example, if you are angry with your partner for not doing something as per your wishes, accept that it is natural for you to face such emotions. Accept that it is because of certain archetypes or ‘samskaras’ that lie embedded in your subconscious. Likewise, accept that it is okay for your partner to behave that way, which is based on his perception and the elements embedded in his subconscious.
With practice, you will find that this helps in surmounting negativity to a large extent.
Attitude:Once we have accepted what lies within our thoughts, we can actually start working upon how we ‘want’ to look at that particular person, situation or thing. Yoga techniques assist us in changing our attitude. The ‘Sankalpa’ or resolve that we set in Yoga Nidra helps in shaping our mind. This resolve in yoga is always in the nature of a positive statement – such as “I am becoming more positive every day”. Such inputs fed into the mind help in shaping our attitude into one of positivism.
Let us look at changing attitude with the following example. Suppose you have a negative attitude toward someone. So much so that he puts you in a bad mood the moment you see him. For a moment, find just one small thing or quality in him that you do like. Now remember that one positive thing whenever you meet or interact with him. Gradually, you will see that your feelings towards him will become more positive and things start looking up.
Following these three guidelines and you will find yourself becoming more positive. Remember that every thought generated in the mind is also experienced by every cell in the body. That is why on a ‘good’ day you feel yourself exercising better with more flexibility, while on a ‘bad’ day you feel stiff and lethargic.
Ultimately, positive thinking affects the body vibrations in a positive manner. This in turn, affects the vibrations around us, which, in turn, affect the situations around us. This helps in relieving our suffering and leading a harmonious life.

10 Tips for Positive Thinking


If you’re down in the dumps for disproportionately long periods of time and you find yourself blaming the rest of the world for your misery, then perhaps a change of attitude is in order. These 10 tips for positive thinking may be able to give your outlook in life its much needed overhaul. So increase your chances for a more constructive perspective with these 10 tips for positive thinking:
1. Recognize negative thoughts as they take shape and bury them before they take root. If you feel your mood darkening again, put a stop to these dangerous musings before you succumb to them. Rule your emotions, don’t let your emotions rule you.
2. Hang out with people who think positive as well. This condition can be quite infectious.
3. Just as contagious is a negative mindset. So avoid people who tend to think negatively on a constant basis. After all, who wants to hang around naysayers all the time?
4. Work out and eat right. If you look good on the outside, it’ll be easier to feel good on the inside, too.
5. De-clutter. Surround yourself only with the things you love and that make you feel good—framed family photos, favorite books, potted plants, works of art, or whatever else that’s meaningful to you.
6. If people tell you you can’t do something, take that as a challenge and prove them wrong. Chances are, they themselves can’t do it or are too afraid to try and are simply bitter about it. If you show them it can be done after all, maybe they’ll even be inspired by your success. You can be a living tip for positive thinking to them.
7. Just when you’re about to blow your top for all the seeming misfortunes that befall you, remind yourself of all your blessings instead. This practice can be very sobering, indeed.
8. Be a volunteer or get involved in charity work. Not only will you realize the sheer number of people who have bigger problems than you do, but there is also such an emotional and even spiritual high to be experienced in helping others.
9. De-stress. You’re more likely to be cranky if you’re perpetually stressed out. So get away from it all and recharge.
10. Keep it up. Getting started is easy. It’s the maintenance that’s tricky. Make a habit out of thinking positively till it becomes an indelible part of who you are.
"Follow these 10 tips for positive thinking and be successful in your search for a happier and healthier frame of mind."

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

KEEP THEM CLOSE

One day a mother died.
And on that clear, cold morning,
in the warmth of her bedroom,
the daughter was struck withthe pain of learning that sometimesthere isn't any more.
No more hugs, no more lucky moments to celebrate together
,no more phone calls just to chat, no more "just one minute."
Sometimes, what we care about the most goes away,
never to return before we can say good-bye, say "I Love You."
So while we have it … it's best we love it .
And care for it and fix it when it's brokenand take good care of it when it's sick.
This is true for marriage … and friendships!
And children with bad report cards;and dogs with bad hips;and aging parents and grandparents.
We keep them because they are worth it,because we cherish them!
Some things we keep -like a best friend who moved awayor a classmate we grew up with.
There are just some things thatmake us happy, no matter what.
Life is important, and so are the people we know.And so, keep them close!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

TWO CHOICES

WE HAVE TWO CHOICES:
Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator.
If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"
Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, 'Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life."
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.
"Yes, it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life."
I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center.
After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.
I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him
how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"
I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his
mind as the robbery took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live."
"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, 'He's a dead man.' I knew I needed to take action."
"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.'"
Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.

MONEY MONEY MONEY

Money can buy costumes but not beauty
Money can buy idols but not devotion
Money can buy books but not wisdom and knowledge
Money can buy bed but not rest and sleep
Money can buy medicines but not health
Money can buy wealth but not health
Money can buy clothes but not shame
Money can buy food but not hunger
Money can buy flowers but not freshness and fragrance
Money can buy land but not home (made of human hearts)
Money can buy honey but not sweetness
Money can buy some things but not everything
Money can buy luxuries but not happiness.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

PROMISE YOURSELF

Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can Disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to Every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel like there is Something in them.
To look at the sunny side of everything and make your Optimism come true.
To think only of the best, to work only for the best, And expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others As you are about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and press on the Greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give Every living person you meet a smile.
To give so much time to the improvement of yourself That you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, and too Strong for fear, and to happy to permit the Presence of trouble.

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

LITTLE EYES ON YOU

There are little eyes upon you and they’re watching night and day.
There are little ears that quickly take in every word you say.
There are little hands all eager to do anything you do;

And a little boy who’s dreaming of the day he’ll be like you.
You’re the little fellow’s idol; you’re the widest of the wise.
In this little mind about you no suspicious ever rise.

He believes in you devoutly, holds all that you say and do;
He will say and do, in your way, when he’s grown up like you.
There’s a wide-eyed little fellow who believes you’re always right;
And his eyes are always opened, and he watches day and night.

You are setting an example every day in all you do.
For the little boy who’s waiting to grow up to be like you.

INDIA IS IN TROUBLE

Population 100 Crore
9 Crore Retired
30 Crore State Govt. (Don’t work)
17 Crore Central Govt. (Don’t work)
1 Crore IT Professional (Don’t work for India)
25 Crore School going children busy in carrying tons of weights hoping for a bright tomorrow.
1 Crore Are under five years.
15 Crore Unemployed.
1.2 Crore Suffering in Hospitals.
79,99,998 People (As per Statistics) Anytime in Jail.

The Balance 2 are U & Me.
U are busy “In reading such funny comments and laughing whole day…
How can I handle India alone?

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Work Life Balance

A man come home from late, tired and irritated, to find his five-year old son waiting for him at the door…

Son: “Daddy, may I ask you a question”
Daddy: “Yeah sure, what it is?”
Son: Dad, how much do you make an hour?
Daddy: “That’s none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?”
Son: “I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?”
Daddy: “I make Rs.500 an hour”.
“Oh”, the little boy replied, with his head down.
Looking up, he said,”Dad, may I please borrow Rs.300?
The father was furious, “If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or other nonsense, then march your self to your room and go to bed. Think why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior”.
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy’s questions.
How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think; “May be there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.300 and he really didn’t ask for money very often!”
The man went to the door of little boy’s room and opened the door.
“Are you asleep, son”? He asked.
“No daddy, I’m awake, “replied the boy.
“I’ve been thinking may be I was too hard on you earlier” said the man.
“It’s been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here’s the Rs.300 you asked for”.
The little boy sat straight up, smiling, “oh thank you dad!” He yelled.
Then reaching under his pillow he pulled some crippled up notes.
The man, seeing that the boy already had money started to get angry again.
The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at his father.
“Why do you want money if you already had some”? The father grumbled.
“Because I didn’t have enough, but now I do,” the little boy replied.
Daddy I have Rs.500 now. Can I but an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.”

MORAL:
It is just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.
If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family and friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to take time out for our family ……..

Friday, April 17, 2009

HOW DO I CHANGE

If I feel depressed I will sing.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my work.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetence I will think of past success.
If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.
Today I will be the master of my own emotions.
“We are told never to cross a bridge until we come to it,
But this world is owned by men who have crossed bridges in their imagination far ahead of the crowd.”

From compromise and things half done,
Keep me with stern and stubborn pride,
And when at last the fight is own,
God, keep me still unsatisfied.

DO NOT QUIT

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but don’t you quit.


Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won and he stuck it out;
Don’t give up, though the pace seems slow—
You might succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up,
When he might have captured the victor’s cup,
And he learned too late, when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out—
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt—
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit—
It’s must things seem worst than you mustn’t quit.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

CHILD LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE

CIf a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence.
If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns to find love in the world.


WHAT CHILDREN GET, THEY GIVE TO SOCIETY.











AN ANSWERED PRAYER

ÆI asked for prosperity,
And God gave me brain,
And Physical strength to work.

Æ I asked for love,
And God gave me,
Troubled people to help!



Æ I asked for favors,
And God gave me,
Opportunities to grab!

Æ I asked for strength,
And God gave me diffi-
-culties to make me strong!

Æ I asked for wisdom,
And God gave me,
Problems to solve!

Æ I asked for courage,
And God gave me,
dangers to overcome!

Æ I received nothing I wanted
I got everything I needed

Thursday, April 9, 2009

I SEE

I see my emotions running deep Deep
to the very core of my soul
I close my eyes but still I see
I see a world out of control.

I see many have lost all morals
and violence that knows no bounds
I close my eyes deep in the night
Only to hear the blood curdling sounds.

I close my eyes but still I see
I see in my dreams
Our children beaten and abused
And I hear their screams.

I see our children with guns
I see them totally overwrought
Shooting down their friends
Without a second thought!

I see my emotions running deep
Deep to the very core of my soul
I close my eyes hoping to see peace on earth
But still I see -

I see a world out of control.

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

THE SHIP OF LIFE

The ship of life
Across the shore awaits a boat

Though sea's are rough, its still
afloat

Raise the sails, held up by mast
Forget the troubles of distant
past

As wave crash down upon the deck
Steady the boat; not quite a
wreak

Tend the mast, and fix the scrach
light the lantern with one last
match

The storm will end, pull anchor
and rope.

look up to see the stars of hope.

Monday, March 23, 2009

AN INSPIRING STORY: "THE ROSE WITHIN"

A certain man planted a rose and watered it faithfully and before it blossomed, he examined it.
He saw the bud that would soon blossom, but noticed thorns upon the stem and he thought, "How can any beautiful flower come from a plant burdened with so many sharp thorns? Saddened by this thought, he neglected to water the rose, and just before it was ready to bloom... it died.
So it is with many people. Within every soul there is a rose. The God-like qualities planted in us at birth, grow amid the thorns of our faults. Many of us look at ourselves and see only the thorns, the defects.
We despair, thinking that nothing good can possibly come from us. We neglect to water the good within us, and eventually it dies. We never realize our potential.
Some people do not see the rose within themselves; someone else must show it to them. One of the greatest gifts a person can possess is to be able to reach past the thorns of another, and find the rose within them.
This is one of the characteristic of love... to look at a person, know their true faults and accepting that person into your life... all the while recognizing the nobility in their soul. Help others to realize they can overcome their faults. If we show them the "rose" within themselves, they will conquer their thorns. Only then will they blossom many times over.

Saturday, March 21, 2009

A SUCCESSFUL PERSON

Winners are those who are resolute and pursue their goals. They play all the cards they are dealt in life in an outstanding way. They aspire to be the best and work towards achieving it. Their determination and will power helps them be successful in every task that they perform. Remember the story of the spider that fell a hundred times while climbing the wall before it could finally reach the top. Hence it’s true that where there is a will there is a way. If you have the passion in you to succeed then nothing can stop you from doing so.Learning is a process and it never comes to an end is the key to the success of a person. A successful person works meticulously and leaves no stone unturned in giving his best shot to his tasks. He is strong and resilient even when he does not succeed. A successful person sees an opportunity in every challenge and takes these challenges logically, not fearing to get up after failing. If you are intelligent and know how to apply your intelligence you can accomplish anything. Bill Gates is a great visionary and a role model for young entrepreneurs, an institution in him. His is a rag to riches story, from starting a computer workshop to becoming the wealthiest man of the world. His foresight, competitive spirit, passion and intelligence have been vital to the success of Microsoft and the software industry.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

LOVE AND TIME: AN INSPIRATIONAL STORY




Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, "Richness, can you take me with you?"Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!""I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you.""Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her. Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder, Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?""It was Time," Knowledge answered."Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."

STORY OF TWO FROGS: AN INSPIRATIONAL STORY

A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead. The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died.The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the other frogs said, "Did you not hear us?" The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.This story teaches two lessons:1. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day.2. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to kill them.Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your path. The power of words... it is sometimes hard to understand that an encouraging word can go such a long way. Anyone can speak words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in difficult times. Special is the individual who will take the time to encourage another.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

THOMAS EDISON

Thomas Edison was a name who never give up. He we defeated many times but every defeat was a pull back for him. Here is a story:

When Thomas Edison invented the light bulb, he tried over 2000 experiments before he got it to work. A young reporter asked him how it felt to fail so many times. He said, "I never failed once. I invented the light bulb. It just happened to be a 2000-step process."

What an attitude. Isn't it?

Monday, March 9, 2009

DO'S AND DONT'S OF SURVIVING THE STOCK MARKET

One of my clients, 26yrs., working with an MNC and an ardent equity investor met me, harried this time, pretty obvious that he was considerably disturbed with the current downturn. He went on to tell me that, he had built a portfolio of about Rs. 4.5 lakh into equity, which was now standing at Rs 2 lakh.
The investments were done about 12 months back, and he complained that subsequently too, every stock he bought, slumped much lower the very next day. Now, he wanted to know, 'what should he do now?'
They say the simple rule in equities is, "Buy low, Sell high!” the complexity kicks in only when you try to figure out the low and high of the market.
The news flows confuse the retail investors endlessly: even when the markets were at 21,000, there were news flows that it would hit 25,000 to 30,000 within few months. This urged the investor to take the bold step and enter equities at that stage, and for those who did this, the scene is not looking very pretty alas!
The markets are trading at multi-year lows today, and many of us who did not sell during the fag end of 2007, have a sad story to tell. We take you through some do's and don'ts of surviving the current stock market meltdown.
Stay calm; don't panic!
Panic selling is a common phenomenon which grips the market when the going gets tough.
An expert cited that the current markets are 70 per cent driven by fear and 30 per cent by greed, and hence, the negative bias. Investments should be categorically driven by reasoning, logic and not by emotions. After every fall the market has only emerged stronger and this is evident from the major falls in the past.
The table below shows the past Sensex falls and how the bellwether recovered in subsequent years:
As can be seen the bellwether, 30-stock, BSE Sensex dropped sharply from 1,559 on October 9, 1990 to 956 points on January 25, 1991, a drop of 39 per cent. But the same index one year later (on January 25, 1992 topped 2,172 points) gave a return of 127 per cent and a return of 61 per cent by January 1994.
As one can see, someone who invested in peaks, saw troughs, but if s/he had waited patiently would have gained significantly from the stipulated levels at which s/he had bought. Another key point to note is that the deeper the cut, longer it took to heal.
Moral of the story: Those who stay calm and don't sell during meltdowns reap the rewards of their patience.
Averaging: A good strategy

If you have invested at a high, don't forget to invest when markets have fallen. That's how systematic investment planning, SIP, works.
To compensate your investments done when stock prices were high, use a SIP over 2 to 3 years to average out the same.
However, it is better to use mutual funds (MF) rather than equities to average your cost of buying a particular share. We have seen best companies see sharp falls (Satyam Computers is a case in recent times).
A diversified mutual fund could be the best option. In volatile times, you need to manage risks effectively and hence MFs make sense. One can use large cap funds to manage this risk as most of the stocks in such a fund are blue chip companies.
Use trading ranges
The market is likely to move in trading ranges (say the Sensex trading between 9,500 to 11,000 points in 2009) over the next 12-24 months.
In this period, you can exit whenever you see markets go up 25 per cent or so and buy again at levels that are 10-15 per cent lower.
We have already seen markets trading in a range of 8,000 to 10,000 for the Sensex at least two times in the recent past. Some of the ranges could be larger than this so do keep some money for a further spike. This will also help average out.
However, do not use this strategy after 18 months from today. You should then be looking at riding a bull wave which one should not miss out on.
Importantly, don't go the stock market way if you are not an expert. Stick to the time-tested formula of investing via SIPs in mutual funds.
Let go the bad ones and stay away from tips!
There's no point in holding onto spoilt eggs. They are only bound to spoil the look of the overall portfolio. Especially since one may have picked up a stock merely because of a tip passed on to you by a close friend of yours who knows a successful broker!
It is best to book your losses (sell your investments at a loss) and use the proceeds to buy other good stocks at a discount. Use defensive stocks in a bear market.
After every fall, there are some companies which will perish eventually, not everybody will have the strength to come out of a harrowing / excruciating hurricane.
Since most of the damage is already done, take calculated risks to average out the higher cost of investments you have made. Losses from equities can mostly be made up from equities. Fear and greed are emotions you need to overcome if you have to make money on the stock market.
Advice for you:
 Research / logic should be the base for your equity investment.
 Do not follow tips blindly; add stocks/mutual funds in your portfolio only if you understand them.
 Look at equities only after you have already planned for your safety and liquidity needs.
 Don’t panic! When you sell in desperation, you always sell cheap.
 Use the averaging route to curtail losses significantly.
 Let go of the bad ones, do not get emotionally attached to your investments

IF YOU THINK

If you think you are beaten, you are.
If you think you dare not, you don’t!
If you like to win, but think you can’t,
It’s almost a cinch you won’t.

If you think you’ll lose, you’re lost;
For out in the world we find.
Success begins with a fellow’s will;
It’s all in the state of mind.



If you think you are outclassed, you are,
You’ve got to think high to rise,
You’ve got to be sure of yourself before,
You can ever win a prize.

Life’s battles don’t always go;
To the stronger and faster man,
But sooner or later the man who wins,
Is the man who thinks he can.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE

Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.

Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.

You can only go as far as you push.

Actions speak louder than words.

The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.

Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.

Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while, you might miss it.

A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.

If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.

When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there

True friendship never ends.

Friends are forever.

Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.

Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.

What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?

NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM. (Isn't that the truth?)
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end. Most people walk in and out of you life. But only True friends leave footprints in your heart.

BUTTERFLY

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could, and it could go no further.
So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon.
The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.
The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.
Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.
What the man, in his kindness and haste, did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were God's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.
Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives. If God allowed us to go through our lives without any obstacles, it would cripple us.
We would not be as strong as what we could have been. We could never fly!
I asked for Strength
.........And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong.
I asked for Wisdom.........
And God gave me Problems to solve.
I asked for Prosperity
.........And God gave me Brain and Brawn to work.
I asked for Courage
.........And God gave me Danger to overcome.
I asked for Love
.........And God gave me Troubled people to help.
I asked for Favors
.........And God gave me Opportunities.
I received nothing I wanted
........I received everything I needed!

Thursday, March 5, 2009

ABRAHAM LINCOLN

This was a man who:
Was failed in business at the age of 21;
Was defeated in a legislative race at age of 22;
Was failed again in business at age of 24;
Had his sweetheart die when he was age of 26;
Had a nervous breakdown at age of 27;
Lost a congressional race at age of 34;
Lost a senatorial race at age of 45;
Failed in an effort to become vice-president at age of 47;
Lost a senatorial race at age of 49;
And was elected president of the United States at age of 52.

Would you call Lincoln a failure? “NO” Because he “Never Never Never Give Up”. For Lincoln, defeat was a detour, not a dead end. So when ever you lose in anything, don’t give up. Give chance again and again until you win.

LIVE FOR TODAY

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Yesterday is history.Tomorrow a mystery.Today is a gift.That's why it's called the present!
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Right Now -
-somebody is very proud of you.

-somebody is thinking of you.

-somebody is caring about you.

-somebody misses you.

-somebody wants to talk to you.

-somebody wants to be with you.

-somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.

-somebody is thankful for the support you have provided.

-somebody wants to hold your hand.

-somebody hopes everything turns out all right.

-somebody wants you to be happy.

-somebody wants you to find him/her.

-somebody is celebrating your successes.

-somebody wants to give you a gift.

-somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.

-somebody hopes you're not too cold, or too hot.

-somebody wants to hug you.

-somebody loves you.

-somebody admires your strength.

-somebody is thinking of you and smiling.

-somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.

-somebody wants to go out with you and have a lot of fun.

-somebody thinks the world of you.

-somebody wants to protect you.

-somebody would do anything for you.

-somebody wants to be forgiven.

-somebody is grateful for your forgiveness.

-somebody wants to laugh with you.

-somebody remembers you and wishes that you were there.

-somebody is praising God for you.

-somebody needs to know that your love is unconditional.

-somebody values your advice.

-somebody wants to tell you how much they care.

-somebody wants to share their dreams with you.

-somebody wants to hold you in their arms.

-somebody wants YOU to hold them in your arms.

-somebody treasures your spirit.

-somebody wishes they could STOP time because of you.

-somebody praises God for your friendship and love.

-somebody can't wait to see you.

-somebody loves you for who you are.

-somebody loves the way you make them feel.

-somebody wants to be with you.

-somebody wants you to know they are there for you.

-somebody's glad that you're his/her friend.

-somebody wants to be your friend.

-somebody stayed up all night thinking about you.

-somebody is alive because of you.

-somebody is wishing that you noticed him/her.

-somebody wants to get to know you better.

-somebody wants to be near you.

-somebody misses your advice/guidance.

-somebody has faith in you.

-somebody trusts you.

-somebody needs you to send them this letter.

-somebody needs your support.

-somebody needs you to have faith in them.

-somebody will cry when they read this.

-somebody needs you to let them be your friend.

-somebody hears a song that reminds them of you.

The Three Trees

Wanted to share this special story with you.... Like a lot of things in life, it's much easier said than done but this is where faith and perseverance comes in.
Once there were three trees on a hill in a woods. They were discussing their hopes and dreams when the first tree said "Someday I hope to be a treasure chest. I could be filled with gold, silver and precious gems. I could be decorated with intricate carving and everyone would see the beauty."
Then the second tree said "Someday I will be a mighty ship. I will take kings and queens across the waters and sail to the corners of the world. Everyone will feel safe in me because of the strength of my hull."
Finally the third tree said. "I want to grow to be the tallest and straightest tree in the forest. People will see me on top of the hill and look up to my branches, and think of the heavens and God and how close to them I am reaching. I will be the greatest tree of all time and people will always remember me.."
After a few years of praying that their dreams would come true, a group of woodsmen came upon the trees. When one came to the first tree he said, "This looks like a strong tree, I think I should be able to sell the wood to a carpenter." and he began cutting it down. The tree was happy, because he knew that the carpenter would make him into a treasure chest.
At the second tree a woodsman said, "This looks like a strong tree, I should be able to sell it to the shipyard." The second tree was happy because he knew he was on his way to becoming a mighty ship.
When the woodsmen came upon the third tree, the tree was frightened because he knew that if they cut him down his dreams would not come true. One of the woodsman said, "I don't need anything special from my tree so I'll take this one" and he cut it down.
When the first tree arrived at the carpenters, he was made into a feed box for animals. He was then placed in a barn and filled with hay. This was not at all what he had prayed for. The second tree was cut and made into a small fishing boat. His dreams of being a mighty ship and carrying kings had come to an end. The third tree was cut into large pieces and left alone in the dark.
The years went by, and the trees forgot about their dreams. Then one day, a man and women came to the barn. She gave birth and they placed the baby in the hay in the feed box that was made from the first tree. The man wished that he could have made a crib for the baby, but this manger would have to do. The tree could feel the importance of this event and knew that it had held the greatest treasure of all time.
Years later, a group of men got in the fishing boat made from the second tree. One of them was tired and went to sleep. While they were out on the water, a great storm arose and the tree didn't think it was strong enough to keep the men safe. The men woke the sleeping man, and he stood and said "peace" and the storm stopped. At this time, the tree knew that it had carried the king of kings in it's boat.
Finally, someone came and got the third tree. It was carried through the streets as the people mocked the man who was carrying it. When they came to a stop, the man was nailed to the tree and raised in the air to die at the top of a hill. When Sunday came, the tree came to realize that it was strong enough to stand at the top of the hill and be as close to God as was possible, because Jesus had been crucified on it.
The moral of this story is that when things don't seem to be going your way, always know that God has a plan for you. If you place your trust in Him, He will give you great gifts. Each of the trees got what they wanted, just not in the way they had imagined.

WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.


The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.


The Winner says, “Let me do it for you”;
The Loser says, “This is not my work”.


The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.


The Winner says, “It may be difficult but it is possible”;
The Loser says, “It may be possible but it is too difficult”.


When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, “I was wrong”:
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault”.


The Winner makes commitment;
The Loser makes promises.


Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.


Winners say, “I must do something”;
Losers say, “Something must be done”.


Winners are part of the team.
Losers are apart from the team.


Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.


Winners believe in win/win;
Losers believe for them to win and someone has to lose.


Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.


Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometer.


Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.


Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.


Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.


Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.


Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: “Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you”;
Losers follow the philosophy of philosophy: “Do it to others before they do it to you”.


Winners plan and prepare to win. The key word is preparation.

So, the choice is yours, what you want to be? Because “
Success is a matter of choice and not chance”.










Sunday, March 1, 2009

NETWORKING BUSINESS: "HOW IT WORKS"


Today networking business is a good medium to earn part time income. It is just like work for our self’s. This is a kind of work you do for your self. Let me share with you why I joined this business.

One of my known one asked me you want to earn me, I said, “YES” why not. He told me, I have a business plan for you if you want to join. I said yes tell me, I am ready if it gives me some part time earning. Then he asked me a simple question; if someone wants to buy a phone and asked to you which are best phone available in market. Which one you suggest to him? I said the one which I was using if it was working well for me. He again asked, why you suggest that particular cell phone to him, is there some commission you get for the same from the company, dealer or shopkeeper. I said “NO”, I gave advice free of cost. Then he said “NOTHING IS FREE IN THIS WORLD”. You are advertising particular company without any cost, right? I said “YES”. Then why not advertise the product of RMP INFOLINE a networking company, who gives you, return for making network through product. You just have to buy a product (company have lots of daily use product) and you got the product of your money worth with a business opportunity. And if your network grows, you also get the benefit of your network too. In this not you but all who added in your network is benefited by added more and more members in network. Other details as follows:

RMP INFOTEC PVT. LTD. Is run by Mr. Dhawal J Chandan (Promoter of Mahavir Metals Ltd.) and P.T.Marimutu (Promoter of PTR Engg. Services) both one have a more than 50yrs. Experience in business. It is a registered co. and tie-up with many big names for product (like Reliance, Big Bazar, Siyaram’s, Sansui, Vimal, Bajaj Allianz etc.). It provides various product options (like Energy Saver, Oven, Watches, Insurance, Laptop, E-Bikes etc.). You can become member by buying any product and start you part time business.

The company gives you Rs. 1000 for per pair means Rs.500 for a member either joined by you or any of your network member on a weekely basis.

Saturday, February 28, 2009

NEVER LOOSING GAME


What you want, Winning or loosing? This is a simple question which I raised for you right now and you have to think this right here right now. I know you are just like me, who always want winning in what ever do. I want to share with you a game in which you never loose. Want to play it with me; I know you will say “YES”, I am ready to play such a game in which my winning is compulsory.

Let me start the game, take a one rupee coin. “HEAD” means you win and “TAIL” means you loose. As you toss the coin if “HEAD” occurs, it means you win the game. But if not, don’t care about it. Be positive and give again a try much more than what you earlier try to win. Again and again toss the coin till “HEAD” occurs and what you find at one point of time “HEAD” occurs and you win the game.

This is not just a game, if you follow this kind of approach in whatever you do; I assure you one thing that you always win. As an old proverb said that; “Success means winning the war, not every battle”. So from now, Think only for the best, work only for the best and expect only the best. So, from next time if you loose in anything, analyze it what went wrong and give again try for the best with more efforts than earlier.

How to go up Growing Good Corn

If you want to go up in your life, try to push up your junior or subordinate. I want to tell you this thing from this short story.

There once was a farmer who grew award-winning corn. Each year he entered his corn in the state fair where it won a blue ribbon. One year a newspaper reporter interviewed him and learned something interesting about how he grew it. The reporter discovered that the farmer shared his seed corn with his neighbors."How can you afford to share your best seed corn with your neighbors when they are entering corn in competition with yours each year?" the reporter asked."Why sir," said the farmer, "didn't you know? The wind picks up pollen from the ripening corn and swirls it from field to field. If my neighbors grow inferior corn, cross-pollination will steadily degrade the quality of my corn. If I am to grow good corn, I must help my neighbors grow good corn."He is very much aware of the connectedness of life. His corn cannot improve unless his neighbor's corn also improves.So it is with our lives. Those who choose to live in peace must help their neighbors to live in peace. Those who choose to live well must help others to live well, for the value of a life is measured by the lives it touches. And those who choose to be happy must help others to find happiness, for the welfare of each is bound up with the welfare of all.


The lesson for each of us is this: if we are to grow good corn, we must help our neighbors grow good corn. It is possible to give away and become richer! It is also possible to hold on too tightly and lose everything. Yes, the liberal man shall be rich! By watering others, he waters himself. So if you want to be successful try to pushup your colleague and you see you also go up

NEGATIVE PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS CRITICIZE

“Some people always look at the negative side.” I want to tell you this in a short story.

There was a hunter who bought an amazing bird dog. This one of a kind dog could walk on water. The hunter was looking forward to showing off his new acquisition to his friends. He invited a friend to go duck hunting. After some time, they shot a few ducks and the man ordered his dog to fetch the birds. All day long, whenever there were birds to be fetched, the dog ran over the water to retrieve the birds. The owner was expecting his friend to comment or compliment him about this amazing dog, but never got one.
As they were returning home, he asked his friend if he had noticed anything unusual about his dog. The friend replied, “Yes, in fact, I did notice something unusual. Your dog can’t swim.”

This is how owner’s friend criticizes the dog’s advantage; he looks on the negative side of the picture and not on the positive side.