Saturday, February 28, 2009

NEVER LOOSING GAME


What you want, Winning or loosing? This is a simple question which I raised for you right now and you have to think this right here right now. I know you are just like me, who always want winning in what ever do. I want to share with you a game in which you never loose. Want to play it with me; I know you will say “YES”, I am ready to play such a game in which my winning is compulsory.

Let me start the game, take a one rupee coin. “HEAD” means you win and “TAIL” means you loose. As you toss the coin if “HEAD” occurs, it means you win the game. But if not, don’t care about it. Be positive and give again a try much more than what you earlier try to win. Again and again toss the coin till “HEAD” occurs and what you find at one point of time “HEAD” occurs and you win the game.

This is not just a game, if you follow this kind of approach in whatever you do; I assure you one thing that you always win. As an old proverb said that; “Success means winning the war, not every battle”. So from now, Think only for the best, work only for the best and expect only the best. So, from next time if you loose in anything, analyze it what went wrong and give again try for the best with more efforts than earlier.

How to go up Growing Good Corn

If you want to go up in your life, try to push up your junior or subordinate. I want to tell you this thing from this short story.

There once was a farmer who grew award-winning corn. Each year he entered his corn in the state fair where it won a blue ribbon. One year a newspaper reporter interviewed him and learned something interesting about how he grew it. The reporter discovered that the farmer shared his seed corn with his neighbors."How can you afford to share your best seed corn with your neighbors when they are entering corn in competition with yours each year?" the reporter asked."Why sir," said the farmer, "didn't you know? The wind picks up pollen from the ripening corn and swirls it from field to field. If my neighbors grow inferior corn, cross-pollination will steadily degrade the quality of my corn. If I am to grow good corn, I must help my neighbors grow good corn."He is very much aware of the connectedness of life. His corn cannot improve unless his neighbor's corn also improves.So it is with our lives. Those who choose to live in peace must help their neighbors to live in peace. Those who choose to live well must help others to live well, for the value of a life is measured by the lives it touches. And those who choose to be happy must help others to find happiness, for the welfare of each is bound up with the welfare of all.


The lesson for each of us is this: if we are to grow good corn, we must help our neighbors grow good corn. It is possible to give away and become richer! It is also possible to hold on too tightly and lose everything. Yes, the liberal man shall be rich! By watering others, he waters himself. So if you want to be successful try to pushup your colleague and you see you also go up

NEGATIVE PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS CRITICIZE

“Some people always look at the negative side.” I want to tell you this in a short story.

There was a hunter who bought an amazing bird dog. This one of a kind dog could walk on water. The hunter was looking forward to showing off his new acquisition to his friends. He invited a friend to go duck hunting. After some time, they shot a few ducks and the man ordered his dog to fetch the birds. All day long, whenever there were birds to be fetched, the dog ran over the water to retrieve the birds. The owner was expecting his friend to comment or compliment him about this amazing dog, but never got one.
As they were returning home, he asked his friend if he had noticed anything unusual about his dog. The friend replied, “Yes, in fact, I did notice something unusual. Your dog can’t swim.”

This is how owner’s friend criticizes the dog’s advantage; he looks on the negative side of the picture and not on the positive side.